Is it better to come alone or with my partner?
We have had many couples come to our retreats together. This is generally fine for mature couples who are able and willing to give one another the space they may need during the retreat without needing to interfere in one another’s process. Doing a retreat together can be very healing for the relationship if it is approached wisely.
Some couples do choose to come to retreats separately, recognizing that their relationship dynamic may make it difficult to participate in a retreat together. This is ok too, and can be beneficial if the individuals in the couple recognize that they may be able to go deeper into their process if they participate in retreats separately.